Thanks for everybody who has been in touch and has been helping me with my current situation. People close to me are probably aware how intense our young family is, I love my family but as close friends know us, know how much tension there has been in the last few years between myself and Maryann. This came to a head last week with a hugh argument over nothing specific and everything in general.
We had two options, one to continue the same way that we had being going and probably come to the same conclusion in a few weeks or part company. Which I have done, the short term everything is up in the air but in the medium term I feel this is best for the kids to be in a happy home with a father who can come and visit and mother was is happier with the kids in the home environment.
Can I say that I do have feelings for someone else but there is where it stays, I’m married and so is the other person, who knows what shall happen in the future, all I know is that I wasn’t happy, haven’t been for a while. I hope with this separation although tough for the family I hope we can come out stronger and happier, at the moment it doesn’t feel that way. But sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind.
There has been a lot of negativity flying about, people shouting off theirs mouths etc, I shall be judged on my own merits hopefully not on weak peoples comments, I ‘ll be judged on me, on my history and I hope not for my recent decision to leave. If I am, well that’s other peoples problem not mine.
I’m still a loving dad who has the most Beautiful & Adoring Kids in the world, and although hard, we shall be all re-united again soon, albeit not as a family unit but as a happier one.
I’m still the same Tommy, I’m keen to get back to work! And I’m keen to get back to so called normality, but more importantly I want to be happy with myself.
I hope you understand. I’m a very emotional person with a lot of love to give, I just have not been able to give it, I hope maybe in the future this shall change however what shall happens, happens.
Tommy
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This post was written by Tommy on June 23, 2011





















